Meet Nate from "My Sexy Veterinarian"
Character Interview
Nate Kincaid has every reason to be the closed-off grumpy guy most people see. He lost the love of his life to a brain tumor and can’t risk his heart again. The demons of grief continue to chase him. MY SEXY VETERINARIAN is the universe’s answer to loss. A woman filled with sunshine and optimism is just the medicine that Nate needs to fill the lonely places in his life. She sees the compassion that lurks beneath the surface and is determined to heal him.
Let’s jump right in...
Let’s start off with some basics—name, age, what you do for a living, family, where you live.
My name’s Nate – Nathaniel David Kincaid – when my mom was mad at me. I’m 35, live on a small ranch outside of San Antonio, and I’m a large animal veterinarian which means a lot of time outdoors." His voice was matter-of-fact . "I’m the oldest of three boys, so I had to be the responsible one. Zach is a national champion team roper on the rodeo circuit and my baby brother, Josh, is a computer programmer. My mom and dad own a large cattle ranch in the Texas Hill country – just north of San Antonio – and that’s where I grew up.
Question: What impression do you make on people when they first meet you?
"I’m a stand-up guy, a regular ‘Mr. Do The Right Thing.’ Traditional, I suppose." He ducked his head like he was embarrassed. "In Texas you’re taught to tip your hat and hold a door open for a lady, help elderly people cross the street, and look out for your neighbors."
Question: How about after they've known you for a while?
“Because I look like a night club bouncer, people are surprised I’m a sensitive guy.” A blush spread into his cheeks. “Don’t tell anyone, but I write poetry.”
Question: Describe your ideal mate.
He scrubbed a hand over his close-cropped hair. “It’s not something I’ve been thinking a lot about… I’ve got to devote all my waking minutes right now to getting my veterinary practice on solid footing. But I suppose someone who is kind, compassionate, loves kids, not afraid to get her hands dirty. Someone who wants to build a home. A woman who wants to make a difference in this world.” He wet his lips. “I’m just having a hard time going there right now.”
Question: What was your first thought or impression of Lauren?
“Lauren? Gorgeous. Independent. Kind of new-agey.” His eyes filled with a soft glow. “Adventurous. Not my usual type, but there was something about her that pulled me in.”
Question: What would you change about Lauren?
“At first I thought I’d want more of a homebody, someone I could count on to stay put. Once I got to know Lauren though, I wouldn’t change a thing because if I did, she wouldn’t be the woman I fell in love with.” A grin spread across his face. “She is the things I was looking for—compassionate, loves kids, wants to make a difference—but she’s also things I thought I didn’t want—adventurous, spontaneous, a free spirit. Those qualities have opened me up to new experiences. She makes me a more complete person.”
Question: What would you change about yourself?
“We both had some demons to slay. Mine was learning to embrace love again. With Lauren’s help, I’m getting there. If I have to change one thing, I would want to be more open to new experiences. Things don’t have to be just one way. ”
Question: What are your thoughts on love?
“Until Lauren, I hadn’t had much luck in that department.” He rubbed his chest over his heart. “My fiancé died about six months before we planned to be married. I didn’t think my heart could take anymore hurt so turned tail and ran as fast as I could in the other direction if a woman started to get serious.”
Question: What is your greatest extravagance?
“Starting my own veterinary practice. Everyone said I should have joined an existing outfit, but I wanted to be my own boss. It was a risk and makes life challenging, but I’m glad I did.”
Question: Do you have any quirky habits?
He grimaced. “You could say I’m a neatnik. I like order in my life.”